Wow - Java over COM and Eclipse on top of that? Somebody likes pain.
So to add to that pain, you can always write a simple Add-In which just forwards "events" from EA to your Eclipse plug-in over whatever protocol you prefer.
As of EA 11, you can load Add-Ins after starting EA from the automation interface. So you could have your Eclipse plug-in start EA, hide the window, connect to the repository, load the Add-Ins and sit back and wait for the events to roll in.
As long as you stick to the one-way events (void functions) you should be OK. Adding support for two-way ones (bool functions which wait for a response) would be another level of pain.
/Uffe