G'day Stephen,
1. Yup, go with the "Logical" diagram. I don't think I'd call it ERD, though.
2-3. Just to make sure we're on the same page as far as process goes... Create a package (most likely in the logical view); put an empty logical diagram in the package; right-click on the package, and "Code Engineering"/"Import DDL Schema from ODBC" will load-up that package with all the tables you choose, and drops each table on the logical diagram in the package.
Each table should only appear once in the project explorer, in either the package you imported into, or some other package you moved the table into. Create any number of logical diagrams you need, in any packages you've organized, and then just drag and drop, from the project explorer, each table into whichever and however many diagrams you need. To hide the attributes, check the properties for the diagram (right-click on the diagram), and click the check box hide attributes. You can also set feature visibility for each object on your diagram if you prefer.
When dragging and dropping tables (they are stereotyped classes), be careful not to create objects (lookup "Drop Objects from Tree" in EA help).
Hope that helps.