nwilli -
This is pretty easy, actually, I've been doing a lot with the internals of the EAP file, which is actually just an Access MDB with a different extension. You need to open the EAP file in Access (change the name to .mdb first, then open in Access). Make sure you open but do not convert the database, since you don't need to change the *design*, just the *contents*.
I'm using Office 2007, but the process should be similar in 2003.
Select one of the queries (creating new queries is disabled since I did not convert the DB) and enter the following SQL:
UPDATE
t_connector
SET
Connector_Type = 'Dependency'
WHERE
Connector_Type = 'Delegate';
Run that sucker and it will convert all of the connectors. Keep in mind that if you have other attributes that you need to enter for the Dependency to be legit, you'll have to take a look at the t_connector table and make sure you set all of the other relevant tags in the update statement, above.
Example: I wanted to change everything (all connectors) in my diagram to associations, nix the <<flow>> label that was entered, and make sure all the colors were the same (a medium gray):
UPDATE
t_connector
SET
Connector_Type = 'Association',
Btm_Mid_Label = '',
LineColor = 10789024;
You will note that I did not qualify this with a WHERE clause, I wanted to blast all the connectors in the whole model.
Good luck! And don't forget to make a copy of your EAP file beforehand. Yarrr.