Got it. The string in t_connector.StyleEx has the GUIDs for the column (possibly columns) referred to in 'Link to Element Feature'. This query will match them on the database, or you can get it out with the StyleEx attribute of the connector.
select t.Object_ID
,t.Name
,t.EA_GUID
,a.Name
,a.EA_GUID
,c.Connector_ID
,c.Start_Object_ID
,c.End_Object_ID
,mid(c.StyleEx, 6,38)
,r.Object_ID
,r.Name
,r.Object_Type
from (((t_Object t
inner join t_Attribute a
on a.Object_ID = t.Object_ID)
inner join t_Connector c
on c.Start_Object_ID = t.Object_ID)
inner join t_Object r
on r.Object_ID = c.End_Object_ID)
where t.Name = '[Table Name]'
and c.Connector_Type = 'Realisation'
and mid (c.StyleEx, 6, 38) = a.EA_GUID