Yes. Your statement "the default appearance for the Checklist element, lite blue background color, client wants it white" suggests that you want to change all elements of type Checklist. Or are you working on all uses of a single element named 'Checklist'?
There are many ways in which you can apply and, in most cases, change the appearance of objects on diagrams. All the options listed here are described in greater detail in the Help.
To set the global appearance of all elements throughout a model, use the 'Preferences' dialog; select the 'Start > Workspace > Preferences' ribbon option, then select 'Standard Colors' and 'Diagram | Appearance' from the options tree. There is an option on the Appearance page called 'Use Element Group Style', which will apply a particular colour to each element of a particular type or extensions of that type. I don't believe that you can change that colour as a preference definition.
To set the appearance of all elements of a specific type (e.g. Checklist) so that they have the required appearance as you create them, define or edit that appearance on an element template diagram in a Template Package. Alternatively, and with the same effect, define the elements in a Profile.
To override the global appearance and define a default appearance of a specific element (e.g. MyAccount) on all diagrams on which it occurs, set the Default Appearance for that element; right-click on the element and choose the 'Appearance | Default Appearance' option.
To override the global or default appearances of a specific INSTANCE of an element (e.g. MyAccount just on the Class diagram 'PayThem') select that element on that diagram and use the options on the Style panel of the Layout ribbon.
Some elements of a specific type (e.g. elements of type Class) might have a customized appearance that is applied using a stereotype that either defines fill, border and font settings, or that actions a ShapeScript. To change the appearance of all elements of that type and that stereotype, edit the stereotype settings or the ShapeScript. A stereotype overrides all other appearance definitions.
You can also apply a standard or customized Theme to all of your diagrams, or to specific diagrams. I'm not sure how flexible that is in changing the fill colour of all elements of a specific type; I don't think it was designed for that purpose.