OK, qwerty and KP. I understand now.
I think what got me wrapped around the axle was getting the hierarchy right. In EA, if I create a package for the behavior I'm trying to model and then I drop an activity diagram into it to start modeling, then the diagram header is "act[package]foo" but if I instead create the package, add an activity directly into it, and then under the activity, I create an activity diagram, that diagram header is "act[activity]foo". In each case, they reflect the model element type of where I placed the diagram. In the former, I can't put a parameter onto the frame, in the latter, I can.
Parenthetically, in Cameo, when I create a package and then add an activity diagram to it, Cameo silently creates an activity in the package and puts the diagram under that activity. I like the behavior of EA better, but it did mean that it 'helped' me less.
Thank you for the guidance. This is hard to figure out alone. Your patience is appreciated.