Wow, Phil!
The references you have provided are really valuable.
I have a couple of suggestions for those who are not familiar with "methodologies", software development process, project management, and their associated frameworks: Firesmith's, Bohm's or the German V software development processes are huge, and it will simply not be practical for you to try them in your next short development cycle. Simply trying to read and assimilate the book by Jacobson and his amigos (450 pages) will be a daunting task. In short, evaluating a software development processes would be a considerable project by itself: very much worth doing, of course, but just consider the effort involved!
So, what is a modest developer or a project leader in hurry to do? Here are some alternatives:
For a general "lightweight" framework see Martin Fowlers book: UML Distilled (it was in its second edition last time I saw it). Very practical, down to earth, with short chapters on the essentials, it deals with UML, the development process and has good tips on project management. By the way, I was the lead translator for the Spanish edition, which came out as "UML gota a gota" --UML drop by drop-- because the arrogant barbarian who was in charge at Addison Wesley-Pearson went ahead and changed our suggested title without consulting with us. (Please note that I do not get any fees for any extra books sold, much less for advertising it! Besides, I make my living from system development, not from translations.)
For quick and powerful ideas on software development cycles, see Alistair Co-ckburn's web site:
http://members.aol.com/aco-ckburn/ (delete hypen in aco-)specially his original contribution on the VW development model.
New ideas and works are continually springing up on the field, so I'm sure other participants in our forum will have other books and web pages to suggest; but I wanted to put in my two cents worth, because I am seeing some postings that are asking questions that are closely related to what has been discussed here and in the original RUP and EJB thread.
Jaime Gonzalez